tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post116014906227516393..comments2023-09-19T04:21:30.080-04:00Comments on My Daily Rantings: Where do i start from?Cherub (former Bijouxoxo)http://www.blogger.com/profile/02699901373929768023noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160459800526455882006-10-10T01:56:00.000-04:002006-10-10T01:56:00.000-04:00lol yeah, but the nomenclature is pretty imporant....lol yeah, but the nomenclature is pretty imporant. its just like saying women are female men sha sha whatever. <BR/><BR/>he doesnt always complain that he's broke, just that i feel uncomfortable when he does (free me im only ten years old lol). we talk but its punctuated by long silences, kk maybe its companionable silence but w/ my other friends its like a race to see who can yarn the most lol, but then again i dont like my other friends like that. i dont want to lend him money cos im afraid ill be like all those girls that used their tuition to buy their bf's cars and houses. i dont know again jareAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160455605744147392006-10-10T00:46:00.000-04:002006-10-10T00:46:00.000-04:00which rule hasnt been re-written. nigerian emabssy...which rule hasnt been re-written. nigerian emabssy was located on the third floor (no talking or whispering zone) of the library. imagine o, they chased us from the first floor which was the group discussion zone and we moved to the quiet zone. talk of showing them the nigerian in us. the garbage bin in that area of the library was always full. i wonder if they still hang out there.ChiefOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04312699016559327683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160425851036128602006-10-09T16:30:00.000-04:002006-10-09T16:30:00.000-04:00Which yawah be that aunty?LOLWhich yawah be that aunty?LOLNaijaBlokehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10097577095760929515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160410116555289832006-10-09T12:08:00.000-04:002006-10-09T12:08:00.000-04:00Bijou,Everybody in this world has a selfish tenden...Bijou,<BR/><BR/>Everybody in this world has a selfish tendency thats why we are humans. Its not easy to feel another human; if it was easy you will feel for any man you see out there.<BR/><BR/>Remember God grants the desires of the heart. There must be a definite reason for such feelings; its your duty to find out. if not you will always never know and it may be very important.<BR/><BR/>I am not in a proper frame to write now but i would add to it ASAP.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160395340300576512006-10-09T08:02:00.000-04:002006-10-09T08:02:00.000-04:00Dear Bijou I feel like its been a while I visited ...Dear Bijou I feel like its been a while I visited you site - but as always you remind us of silly things we once you used to.The Life of a Stranger called mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10832744663777932132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160341620388726252006-10-08T17:07:00.000-04:002006-10-08T17:07:00.000-04:00LOL!!! I had my secret crush at my church too and ...LOL!!! I had my secret crush at my church too and he never noticed me :-( LOL!!!<BR/><BR/>I have broken library rules as well... eating, talking at an inconsiderate level, etc. I would have just ignored her... I can be rude like that LOL!!!<BR/><BR/>As for OF, good job... you don't want to feel like you are forcing yourself on someone and that they only talk to you when they have your time... <BR/><BR/>Have a blessed week!LondonBukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10677887052316159966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160336923896703122006-10-08T15:48:00.000-04:002006-10-08T15:48:00.000-04:00@Anthony a.k.a Computer guru: I knew you guys woul...@Anthony a.k.a Computer guru: I knew you guys would support ur own. Okay, the next convo we have (when he calls), i'd use style to include it in the discussion, to know if he has a girl or not. I don't think he even realizes that he's always talking about himself. So according to ur advise, i should go after him.<BR/><BR/>@Anon: Thanks for the correction. Are the catholic monks that are female not called nuns? Could it be he's hiding something when a guy doesn't want to talk about himself, hmmm? Maybe, maybe not. I'd suggest u just listen, about always complaining that he's broke. If u feel u're in a position to loan/ lend/ give him money, do it, but don't let it always be the norm.<BR/><BR/>@Dipo: Oga Dipo, na 3 times u call me. He's not my adviser, the thing is i already decided on what to do, and just wanted another opinion, from a guy's perspective. I've read that article on ur blog, and even commented on it, but i'd read it again.Cherub (former Bijouxoxo)https://www.blogger.com/profile/02699901373929768023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160313835092443062006-10-08T09:23:00.000-04:002006-10-08T09:23:00.000-04:00Bijou! Bijou!! Bijou!!How many times did I call u?...Bijou! Bijou!! Bijou!!<BR/><BR/>How many times did I call u?<BR/><BR/>I dont know if I have a right to tell u this but I will tell u anyway;<BR/><BR/>Please, change your adviser<BR/><BR/>Please, please, please<BR/>For the sake of Christ that you promote, change him! NOW!!!<BR/><BR/>You may start by reading 7 REASONS WHY FEMALES GET HURT on www.dipotepede.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160277747342411492006-10-07T23:22:00.000-04:002006-10-07T23:22:00.000-04:00there arent any female catholic monksjust thot i'd...there arent any female catholic monks<BR/><BR/>just thot i'd let you know.<BR/><BR/>so what do you do when the guy never talks about himself, and only wants to talk about you and then when he actually talks about himself, its about hes really broke (college student sha)<BR/>are you meant to give him money, advice or just listen?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160216693900369082006-10-07T06:24:00.000-04:002006-10-07T06:24:00.000-04:00On the contrary, I do not think I should support y...On the contrary, I do not think I should support your action.<BR/>Whatever happened to freedom of speech & expression!<BR/>Left to me, I think the world has graduated from the school of thought that it's the guy that should make the advances and must/should (by the force of compulsion) care immediately when you strike a friendship (be in talking terms.<BR/>I suggest if you like him, you'll ask him some cogent questions like if he has a girlfriend.<BR/>No man is perfect, he might not just see it as something bad to always talk about himself without asking about you. Many men also do not have the in-built capacity to hear women talk (it's not preinstalled in their OS).<BR/>Remember, men are wired differently from women. Many men's design architecture are like AMDs. Those of women are multilayered like intel that keeps getting updated.<BR/>It would be unfair to draw conclusions that that is how he would always be/relate without thinking of giving room for him to change or learn to relate in a better manner. Even women change for the better, so his brain is not read-only, there's permission to edit information.<BR/>Finally if I were a lady & I get attracted to a guy who I feel is cool, I would do everything within my power to make him mine. We all have rights to choose what/who we want, I won't let the fact that I'm a lady constrain me if a guy isn't forthcoming.<BR/>For your information, they aren't constrained in the village anymore, talkless of civilized worlds.Anthony Arojojoyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05991980843270333669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160188539959091072006-10-06T22:35:00.000-04:002006-10-06T22:35:00.000-04:00@Biodun: Abegi u're not the only one that break li...@Biodun: Abegi u're not the only one that break library rules o. But the one i don't do, or lemme say that i try not to do, is answering my cell in the lib. I'm 5' almost 6.5 inches. I bought a Size 2 dress at NY & Co. and it fit me perfectly, i thot i was supposed to be a size 4.<BR/><BR/>@NB: Well done o. I've sealed ur yawa in a cooler/ Eleganza warmer. When last did i hear about Crush, abi no be the crush drink u dey refer to? I'm still counting down for u, i'll remind u when the time is near.<BR/><BR/>For real, y'all are the best. I'm sending a squeezy blog hug to u guys, can u feel it?Cherub (former Bijouxoxo)https://www.blogger.com/profile/02699901373929768023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160188194320622562006-10-06T22:29:00.000-04:002006-10-06T22:29:00.000-04:00@EVERYONE: Y'all have made my night, for supportin...@EVERYONE: Y'all have made my night, for supporting what my actions towards OF. I'm sure most of us, when thru that "go to church for ur crush who may not notice u phase." Sad innit?Cherub (former Bijouxoxo)https://www.blogger.com/profile/02699901373929768023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160177387649824292006-10-06T19:29:00.000-04:002006-10-06T19:29:00.000-04:00Ha ha! which girl didnt have a 'church crush' back...Ha ha! which girl didnt have a 'church crush' back in dem days? I was certainly one of them, and then I'd be hoping he was looking at me when I went up to the alter to give my offering (chei, make una thank God for my life, oh!)<BR/>your guy,OF, reminds me of someone I used to know; believe me, you dont need people like that around you. why waste time talking to them when u can dedicate your time to people who really appreciate your friendship?Beautifully Humanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06481629236069309022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160174732061296102006-10-06T18:45:00.000-04:002006-10-06T18:45:00.000-04:00"Kokoro Ewa and her Crushes and 7ups" written by X..."Kokoro Ewa and her Crushes and 7ups" written by Xoxo<BR/><BR/>Coming out on 10/10/06 ..Grab a copy and plz no photocopying O.NaijaBlokehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10097577095760929515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160165266814125632006-10-06T16:07:00.000-04:002006-10-06T16:07:00.000-04:00i definately went throught the "go to church for c...i definately went throught the "go to church for crush" stage lol but that was when i was way younger. its a good thing u sent OF on his way me thinks he was a waste of time. have a lovely weekendLife through rose-tinted glasseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00040273923491812549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160164117046613492006-10-06T15:48:00.000-04:002006-10-06T15:48:00.000-04:00yep. write down your list...and you dont discuss i...yep. write down your list...and you dont discuss it with anyone but God and watch what happens. Just send me an invite when the time comes... :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160156473755827542006-10-06T13:41:00.000-04:002006-10-06T13:41:00.000-04:00I am guilty of breaking every library rules, ha ha...I am guilty of breaking every library rules, ha ha that chick sure is a gbeborun, men am jealous o, everyone is workign out n is in perfect shape, how tall r u if I may ask, take care n have a blessed weekend!Biodunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01719021200012616161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28841058.post-1160153685662508422006-10-06T12:54:00.000-04:002006-10-06T12:54:00.000-04:00i'm always opening the comment floor on here. anyw...i'm always opening the comment floor on here. anyways...i guess we all went through the "go to church for ur crush" phase lol. back then there used to be this craig david look alike guy at my church...mmm mmm mmm.<BR/><BR/>and yeah forget that guy men...i know those types, u get so bored with talking to them on the phone cus all thats important to them is that u hear how stressed they are, how busy they were at work, etc. if they're like that when they are supposedly "toasting" you then what will happen when y'all start dating. Don't worry ur man is on the way ;)ABBEYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03344917327031045252noreply@blogger.com